Cancer cliches to avoid: I’m not ‘brave’

Mandy Mahoney, who has incurable breast cancer, says she is not “brave” or “inspirational”

(BBC News) — Fighter, warrior, hero – some of the terms you might see used to describe people with cancer.

But according to a new survey, for some with the illness the words are seen as inappropriate rather than uplifting.

The UK poll by Macmillan Cancer Support of 2,000 people who have or had cancer found “cancer-stricken” and “victim” were also among the least-liked terms.

The charity said it showed how “divisive” simple descriptions of cancer can be.

Calling a person’s cancer diagnosis a “war” or a “battle” and saying they had “lost their battle” or “lost their fight” when they died, were other unpopular descriptions, according to the poll carried out by YouGov. (…)

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